Raising Children in the World, but not of the World.
Raising Children Who Are in the World but Not of It
As Christian parents, we face an extraordinary challenge: raising children who live in a world filled with competing voices, shifting values, and influences that often contradict the truth of God’s Word. We’ve all heard the phrase, "We are in the world, but not of it." While true, it can sometimes give the impression that we are simply enduring life here, waiting to escape. But is that how Jesus saw it?
Jesus' words in John 17 provide a different perspective. On the eve of His crucifixion, He prayed for His followers, saying:
"I do not ask that you take them out of the world, but that you keep them from the evil one… As you sent me into the world, so I have sent them into the world." (John 17:15,18)
Jesus makes it clear—our mission is not to withdraw but to engage. We are set apart, yet intentionally sent into this world for a purpose. And that purpose should shape the way we raise our children.
A Biblical Perspective on Parenting
Raising children in today’s world can feel overwhelming. From social media to entertainment, outside influences constantly shape their thinking. As Christian parents, our goal isn’t just to shelter them but to equip them—to fill their hearts and minds with God’s truth so they can stand firm and shine brightly.
1. Teaching Our Children to Love Truth
Before our children interact with the world, they should be deeply rooted in the truth of God’s Word. The Bible isn’t just a set of rules; it’s the foundation for understanding life, identity, and purpose.
Psalm 145:4 says, "One generation shall commend your works to another and shall declare your mighty acts." It’s our divine calling to pass down the knowledge and love of God to our children.
Practical ways to cultivate a love for God’s Word:
Read Scripture together daily, even in small ways.
Teach through stories—help them see biblical figures as real people whose faith shaped history.
Show them that Scripture applies to real life, addressing their fears, struggles, and hopes.
The Bible is not a burden—it’s a treasure. When we delight in it, our children will see its worth.
2. Recognizing and Resisting Worldly Influences
The world is constantly teaching our children something. The question is: Who is doing the teaching?
Celebrities, social media, and entertainment shape ideas about success, happiness, and identity.
The culture often portrays authority as oppressive and traditional values as outdated.
Messages like "I deserve," "I need," and "I will be happy if..." subtly nurture selfishness and discontent.
The challenge is real, but we are not powerless. As parents, we decide:
✔ What our children watch and listen to.
✔ Who they spend time with.
✔ What values shape their worldview.
Being intentional about these choices doesn’t mean we control every aspect of their lives, but it does mean we act as gatekeepers, creating a home where God’s truth is the primary influence.
3. Creating a Christ-Centered Culture at Home
Our homes should be places where God's truth isn’t just taught but lived out. This means:
Modeling faith—Let your children see you pray, seek God’s wisdom, and live with integrity.
Encouraging thoughtful discussion—Teach them why we believe what we believe.
Providing godly influences—Surround them with a community of believers who reflect Christ’s love and truth.
Ephesians 4:17-19 warns against a world that has “lost all sensitivity” and “given itself over to sensuality.” As Christian families, we have the opportunity to raise children who are not shaped by this culture but instead transform it through their faith and character.
4. Teaching Wisdom and Discernment
Beyond rules and boundaries, our children need wisdom—the ability to discern truth from lies and good from evil. This means addressing not just what they do, but why they do it.
The Bible provides countless examples of wisdom in action. When your child faces fear, bring David’s courage to life. When they struggle with peer pressure, show them Daniel’s resolve. These stories aren’t just history; they are our family’s heritage in faith.
A Mission-Focused Approach to Parenting
Christian parenting isn’t about isolating our children from the world but preparing them to impact it. By:
✅ Raising them on a foundation of Scripture,
✅ Helping them recognize and resist worldly influences,
✅ Creating a home filled with Christ’s truth and love,
✅ Teaching wisdom and discernment,
We equip them to be in the world but not of it—not just avoiding the darkness, but shining as lights within it.
May we raise children who love God, walk in His truth, and boldly live out their faith for His glory.
Faith and Courage,
Lori
